there, my name is Britni. I am more commonly
known as Bisexual Britni of the adult film world.
I am a veteran of 300 adult movies, 60 adult
magazine layouts, the Howard Stern Show and I was
named the 2002 Adult Actress of the Year.
some of you already know, I have been involved in a
polyamorous triad for nearly 5 years now. I met a
girl online named Michelle who lived in Denver while
I was living in New York. I was 16 years old at the
time. Michelle asked me to fly to Denver to meet her
and after a week or two of chatting via AOL and the
phone, I agreed. It did not take long to realize I
was falling in love with Michelle and wanted to be
in her life for as long as I could be. There was one
hang-up though: Michelle was married to a man named
Dennis and had been for 7 years. Even worse, as far
as I was concerned, was the fact they were happily
married and Michelle had no intention of leaving
spent the next month in Denver, spending all sorts of
time with Michelle. We shopped together, cooked dinner
together and made love several times a day. I was in
heaven and had no intention of ever going back to New
York. Michelle was the perfect woman for me and I knew
it. Now, what to do about her husband.To
his credit, he never hit on me, made any advance
towards me and always treated me like I was a welcome
addition to the family. When I asked Michelle what I
should do, she said I should consider the idea of
simply being involved with and loving Dennis also. The
idea floored me as I had never thought about having
sex with Michelle's husband because I just sort of
thought he was off-limits. I am not sure why I thought
that, as it was quite obvious Michelle was not off
limits... so, why was Dennis? Right?
That night, we all went and had a
wonderful dinner and spoke at great length of the
possibilities of a long term three-way relationship. I learned
that Dennis and Michelle were not new at this. They had been
married to another girl for almost 5 years, just previous to
meeting me. This girl had moved on due to matters unrelated to
3 way relationships. I felt very comfortable with Dennis and
Michelle and asked them to take me back home so we could all
three have sex. Since I had quietly already been attracted to
Dennis, having sex with him was an easy decision. I was not
entirely sure how it was all going to work out, but I was game
for trying something new.
That night I learned something. I
learned that I love three way sex and three way love. I could
not have been happier than I was that night. I was making out
with a girl I loved dearly while being made love to by a man I
loved dearly. Then, I got to hold Michelle's hand while she
was being made love to. I feared I would get jealous or hurt
when Dennis moved to have sex with Michelle but I wasn't.
Quite the opposite. I was so happy that Michelle was happy and
feeling good that I almost cried. The three of us made love
for several hours that night, several different times. If I
had written a script for the perfect night of romance and sex,
I could not have written it better than the reality of that
When I awoke, I knew we would be a
threesome for life. I was warm, happy, sexually satisfied and
ready to take on the world. We continued this relationship for
a year or so until we decided to take it to the next level,
marriage. Of course, due to silly and antiquated laws, it
would have been illegal for Dennis to be legally married to
Michelle and me at the same time. So, we had to do the next
best thing. We had a wonderful ceremony with friends and
family, exchanged rings and vows and then I simply changed my
last name to match theirs. It was a beautiful, magical night
of real love and warm sex. Of course, the conservative right
would call that night and our entire relationship a travesty
and an immoral disgrace.
As always, if you have any questions
or wish to discuss anything with me, please feel free to do
so. Please do keep in mind, that even though I am an adult
actress/stripper, I do not cross polyamory and porn. So,
please, do not ask me graphic sexual questions seeking
sexually gratifying answers as it pertains to polyamory. I
will just ignore you.
have lived in a MFF poly-triad since I was 16 years
old. We just celebrated our 5th wedding
anniversary and we are still going strong.
Dennis, Michelle and I reside in Denver, Colorado.
We do our very best to promote poly and the
understanding and acceptance of poly in our
community. We host poly parties, BBQ's and
other such functions.
feel free to email me/us firstname.lastname@example.org
if you have any questions or would like to attend
one of our poly events.
Britni & Penn (of
Penn & Teller)
1371 Malaihi Road
Wailuku, Maui, HI 96793
2004 [World Polyamory Association]. All rights reserved.
Revised: July 22, 2011